In my life lessons were not taught but learnt by mistakes

My father was abusive and my mother died when I was 16 so there was no one to teach me about responsibilities , married life and how to keep my in-laws happy.

Whenever I remember my mother I see a blur image of a broken woman with responsibility of 6 family members on her shoulder who used to be up and working at4 in the morning and slept at 12 .first one to wake up and last one to sleep

My father when drunk used to hit her with whatever he can get his hand on ,once my mother couldn't sleep for a month because she slept before father arrived.

So in my mind abusive , drunk,women beater of a husband is not so uncommon

Every husband can hit or raise his hand on his wife

But I was proven wrong